"We are a blended bach group of 5 over 21 and 2 under 21. Looking for some fun Bachelorette trip ideas for those under 21? some type of fun tour? burlesque dancers? etc?..."
Planning a bachelorette party with both 21+ and under-21 guests requires creativity, but there are plenty of amazing options that will keep everyone engaged! Focus on experiences rather than bar-hopping, and you'll create memories that outlast any hangover. Consider booking a private mixology class where the under-21s can learn to craft mocktails while the others make cocktails – companies like Social Sips or local culinary schools often accommodate mixed-age groups and can come to your rental.
For entertainment, private dancers or burlesque performers are definitely an option – many professional entertainers work private parties regardless of guest ages since alcohol isn't required for the show. Look into booking through reputable agencies like Dream Girls or search "private bachelorette entertainment" in your destination city. Other fantastic inclusive activities include wine and paint classes (sparkling cider for the younger ones), cooking classes, spa days with group treatments, escape rooms, karaoke party buses, or themed photo shoots with a professional photographer. Many cities also offer fun group tours like ghost walks, food tours, or even pole dancing fitness classes.
Destination-wise, consider places with diverse activities like Nashville (live music venues that are all-ages during daytime, honky-tonk tours), Charleston (carriage tours, cooking classes, beach activities), or even a cabin rental in the mountains with planned activities. Vegas actually has tons of under-21 friendly options during the day – shows, shopping, spa treatments, and adventure activities.
Pro tip: Book a private party bus or van for transportation so everyone can participate in the festivities together, and create a shared playlist ahead of time so both age groups feel included in the music selection. The key is advance planning – call venues directly to confirm their age policies rather than assuming!
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